This Asian student? Yeah, he's not your run of the mill hardcase story.. Picture this: a young Chinese guy, John Elite Dating Coach Review…
Chinese student 5 11… same day hookup in 3 approaches pretty good-looking, and living in the States.
You’d think he’d have no trouble with women, right?
But, surprisingly, he was really struggling.
No matches on Tinder, no dates lined up...
despite being more attractive than a lot of those dating coaches out there,
he was still hitting a wall.
He sported this K-pop hairstyle,
was on the skinny side,
no muscle to speak of,
and let’s be honest, he had zero results to show for it.
The guy had only ever hooked up once, and it took him six long months
to make it happen with his first girlfriend...
strictly through his social circle type of setting.
After approaching for daygame, he decided to try something different after reading a John Elite Dating Coach Review.
Honestly, he had his issues.
There was a bit of narcissism there, totally emotionally blind,
and he couldn’t read emotions in either himself or others.
Plus, he was easily triggered.
Classic case of a cluster B personality...
hardworking, sure, but also incredibly stubborn,
always trying to mix in that Justin Wayne romantic “disco ball” game in the bedroom,
which, let’s face it, just wasn’t hitting the mark.
It freaked women out with his lack of emotional intellegence.
He kept resisting the protocol, insisting on doing things his own way, and naturally, he got nowhere with that.
This was all happening just as the Ukraine war kicked off, by the way.
He thought he could take shortcuts, sticking only to the Skypes from
Elite Bundle 1...
like Elite 30: From Hardcase to Hero for body language...
and the Elite Playbook for tactics. But it turned out that wasn’t quite enough, as he learned from another John Elite Dating Coach Review.
He was hesitant to spend money on Elite Access, even when I pointed out that it would save him loads of time.
But once he finally signed up for Elite Access?
Everything shifted.
He started sending me homework every single night...
real, actual drills and practice,
not just some field approaches.
He had to sneak out at night since his girlfriend was living with him, so
he’d go for walks,
do his drills in secret,
and then shoot me the recordings for feedback.
It was like a light bulb went off; he finally stopped resisting my system and dropped his ego.
He ditched the Justin Wayne romance stuff, the hand-holding nonsense, and just followed my instructions.
He took on the 21-day challenge, focusing on body language and social skills flow drills.
He wasn’t even working on tonality yet, but those two skills alone...
body language and social calibration...
were enough to bump his daygame score up by five points.
On top of that, he started building some muscle with my V-shape body plan, and man, did his confidence skyrocket.
He revamped his wardrobe, started looking sharp, and for the first time, everything just clicked.
All those drills and corrections?
They built new habits.
It takes 21 days to start a habit,
but 66 days to make it stick.
He practiced so much that when he finally went out there, he was executing like a natural.
No more mass approaches...
just focused practice.
Then, when his Indian buddy came to visit and let him use a hotel room, he finally had a spot to make a move.
He went out, did three approaches in the city, and on the third one?
Boom, a same-day hookup with a white girl.
Before, he wouldn’t have been able to pull that off, no matter how many attempts he made.
This just goes to show that it’s not about the numbers; it’s all about the right drills, the right feedback, and building the right habits.
He transformed from stuck and frustrated to getting real results just by trusting the process and putting in the work.
That’s the real deal...turning a hardcase into a guy who can hook up on the same day.
No more excuses, no more mass approaching, just pure skill...
exactly what you see in every real John Elite Dating Coach Review.
John Elite Dating Coach Review… Chinese Daygame student 5 11… same day hookup in 3 approaches in his own words
"I’m a 5’11” Asian guy from China
here’s my story
I have good height and a decent-looking face, at least for a Chinese guy
But honestly, it doesn’t really matter
It’s still really tough out here for us Asians in dating
Whether it’s daygame or online
I started with simple pickup
Got some confidence
Just spam approached
Zero results and lots of flakes
I tried Tinder
Got some matches, but honestly, nothing came of it
Maybe it was my pictures, maybe my texting
But I got zero results
Zero dates...
not just zero lays, but zero dates from Tinder or any online dating
It’s crazy, but I don’t do it anymore
Then I discovered Justin Wayne’s stuff
Really flashy, romantic, touchy stuff
I tried it, bought his product, and still got so many flakes
I pulled and held one girl home in two years of trying
Eventually, I got laid and she became my girlfriend
But honestly, that was more social circle game, not daygame
We were both in college, same social circle
I did hundreds of approaches before that
My success rate was maybe 1%
If you even count it as success
Thankfully, I found John Elite on YouTube
Just watching him, I realized why other methods don’t work
I’m a theoretical guy
My goal was to have consistent results with minimal approaches
I didn’t want to spam approach
John had testimonials from students doing exactly that
I got the Elite Bundle and Elite Access
The first month, it was just Elite Bundle
Then I got another month with Elite Access
And yeah, I got laid with a cute white girl in basically one day, with only three approaches
She was the third
To be honest, I’m actually one of the slow ones, for many reasons
But it still only took two months compared to years with other people’s methods
The first month, I improved a little
But I was slow to adapt because I had years of bad habits from past approaches and just life
I was hunching all the time
Didn’t follow John’s teaching completely because of my mental filter
I didn’t realize that until John told me
Even despite that, I was able to consistently pull
By the end of the month, without Elite Access, I was able to get results
But when I got Elite Access, it really boosted my training
John was always there for me
Looking back, I wish I had gotten Elite Access from the start
He actually suggested it, but I didn’t listen
Then my buddy came to visit me
He got a hotel and let me pull at his hotel, which I’m really grateful for
So I started approaching again
Despite all that, I was able to get laid from the first couple days
Just approaching with really minimal approaches per day
On that particular approach, we talked
Went on a walk for about 30 minutes
Arranged a date that same night
I followed John’s social flow drill and it really connected with her
I could feel it
It was magical
I’m pretty sure she felt it too
We went back to my friend’s hotel room
That’s where the magic happened
Everything John taught me was used
Body language, Facial expression, Fashion, Hairstyle, Facial grooming, Inner game. Objection dealing, Muscle building
So much more
Afterwards, she actually told me I was very sexy with my body
She said I had a little swagger going on
That’s probably from John’s workout plans and the social skills and calibration
They really notice these things
A side effect of all this training is my value goes up
Some of that value stays with me, even if I lose all the material things
What stays with me is my inner game
Body language, Facial expression, Flirting, Teasing, Muscle building, Even looks
Yeah, John improved my looks too, believe it or not
My longtime girlfriend’s attraction for me has actually gone up a lot
Shown through her clinginess and her effort in sex
That was pretty cool
I never expected that
John said relationships are really about value
If your value is higher, the girl won’t want to leave you
So the bigger goal in dating and life is to raise my overall value as high as I can
John has really helped me with that
Hopefully he’ll continue to help me in the future
Even though there are only a few big categories of value John talks about: Looks, Social skills, Social calibration, Money
The details and nuance are so complex
How you raise those things is very important
John has figured them out and is always exploring new and better ways
He’s a true innovator
Already light years ahead of everybody else
That’s why John is really the best
Let me get a little philosophical
John’s value creation isn’t zero sum
He’s not taking other people’s value to give to students like me
He’s helping us raise our own value through our hard work and his hard work
That brings positive value to the whole world
He’s not just making a positive impact for his students, but for everyone
Including the women, who have amazing experiences with higher value men from John’s coaching
That’s pretty cool
Also, less women get creeped out by low-value spam approaches
A lot of them get freaked out, but they actually enjoy themselves with high-value men from John’s coaching
John’s teaching style is tough love
At first, despite my good height and looks, I got destroyed infield with constant rejections
John would look over my infield and point out my mistakes during Skypes
I watched all the product videos, but it was through my own mental filters
Bad mental filters
So it was really important for John himself to correct my mistakes
He pointed out I didn’t know how to read social cues or emotions
I couldn’t tell when a girl was attracted to me or not
He taught me to overcome that with new techniques
When I didn’t perform in drills or infield, he’d give harsh criticism
At first, I’d get triggered and try to explain myself
But John told me if I just accept and execute his words with minimal emotions, everything would go faster and smoother
I did that, and yeah... it worked
My advice to you is really to just follow John, without much resistance
Do what he says
Importantly, don’t do what he doesn’t say or mention
Sometimes he tells you what not to do...
even if he doesn’t say it directly,
don’t do it
For example, I added romance stuff from Justin Wayne because I thought it would make John’s teaching better
That got me constant rejections
During one of my lays, I held the girl’s hand and tried objection dealing, and I got rejected
I didn’t even know handholding in the bedroom was too romantic
John pointed that out, and it made a difference
Sometimes it’s those tiny details that make or break things
I would never have figured that out on my own
John is just too good
The best part about his product is really John himself
He helps each student with the best personalization for everyone
He’s reached the lay and beyond,
but John is tough on us
I can tell he really cares about me and his other students
He told me not to risk losing my original girlfriend, even though it might affect my lay progress
He told me not to risk my job
He yelled at me for buying bad fashion clothing because I didn’t consult him first
He didn’t want me to waste my money
He’s even left his food to burn just to keep talking to me and correct my mentality
To help me go from hard case to not so much of a hard case
To just doing what he says...
which I’m really grateful for
Before I got Elite Access, he sometimes just gave me advice out of the blue, even when I didn’t ask
In the end, before I got the access, I wanted to pay for his time, but he wouldn’t take my money
That just shows he’s really not in it for the money
He’s in it for the good of his students and his mission and vision
Besides being the best game coach in the world, he’s actually a really great guy
He can sometimes seem mean, but that’s because he wants the best out of us
He can also admit to his rare mistakes, because he wants to pursue the truth in dating and life
He’s a scientist, and these qualities really show
John works so hard
He has so many students, but he gives every individual the attention they need
He’s very resilient and tough
He doesn’t get triggered easily
He literally told me to call him names and he had no reaction
That really sets the example for us
For me, I still have a long way to go to be the best version of myself
But John continues to inspire me to be better...
not just with his teaching, but with how he lives his life
So my brothers, whether you’re Asian or not, if you want to improve your dating life or just life in general, or even just have your future partners like you more,
I highly recommend you join Elite’s product and teaching...
especially John’s Elite Bundle and Elite Access
That’s what really helped me
But when in doubt, just ask John what product you should get
It might be different for everybody
He told me from the start: Elite Bundle, Elite Access
I wish I’d gotten the access from the start, but I was a fool
He never told me to get more expensive products or other things like Kaizen
He knows what each person needs to get over the line
If you’re Asian especially, you’d be crazy not to train with him
I really hope you follow John and get better
It might not be an easy road, but John will be there for you
Lastly, I want to say that this world is still full of suffering
There are so many bad things going on around us
I really hope you can join us...
especially join John...
to bring value and happiness to yourself and the world through John’s teaching
That’s all I want to say
Thank you very much for listening."
-John Elite (Best Daygame Coach In The World
